Could it be that the story, ‘I can’t trust life’ is a primary cause of war and violence on the planet? And that every time you believe this thought, you become a participant? You might not be plotting a military invasion but you are at war with reality. And any time we are at war with what is, we have no choice but to try and control it. Which means bigger and bigger ways of forcing - of violence. What would it be like to set down your huge list of what should and should not be happening and let the universe take care of every detail?